1. When you’re walking in your light and in your power don’t ever let anyone dim that. You’re a high vibrater. Stay high. “When they go low we go high.”

2. Know when to walk away. If God already revealed the plan or the promise believe in it. Don’t hold onto mistreatment and foolishness. God will literally take the wheel and force you to walk away like didn’t I tell you!

3. What’s meant for you will ALWAYS be for you. Sometimes you have to walk away in order to receive the promise. Looking back, the situation with HER is the only thing that probably would’ve caused me to walk away. When there were tons of other things and signs. Stand strong in your Queendom. Let him be ruthless on his own. He need to go through his own transformation to walk in his power and light and you can not control his process! You can’t be walking in light and your partner still in the dark. It won’t work. PERIOD.

4. Co-dependency is emotionally destructive and unhealthy. You can not give your everything to a person in hopes that they’ll love you and choose you. You’re already loved. You’re already chosen. God chose you. Love yourself unconditionally.

5. You can’t seek the love from a parent from a partner. You will always be disappointed and heartbroken.

6. If someone reveals their truths, believe them and know that you can’t change them. Influence them yes. Change no. They have to be the change. It takes work to change your mindset. You also need an abundance of faith. It may also require you to change your environment and circle. Everyone around you won’t be an agent of change.

7. Follow your heart, spirit, intuition, and word of God. Don’t allow anyone to manipulate or influence what you’re being guided to do with your life and actions. God didn’t plant the seed in them. Always do what’s best for you. Yes you’ll need support. Life’s journey isn’t easy but you hold the key to your own destiny and power. Who cares what others think. They are living in mess or have lived in mess too. Nobody has it fully together. We all struggle. That’s the beauty of living.

8. Constantly seek forgiveness. Even when you don’t want to forgive pray that one day you’ll be able too. Pray for healing.

9. You can not medicate hurt and pain with sin (sex, drugs, alcohol, etc). It’s a temporary fix and you’ll always come out on the losing side.

10. Know that God has the final say over everything. Trust the process. He’s already ordered your steps. Everything is love. ❤️